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Fa A woman's duties towards her husband are important issues in Islam, and observing them helps develop intimate relationships between couples and resolve family problems. Islam has set duties for both men and women to maintain and improve the quality of the family, while considering their rights. If a woman is familiar with the principles of good husbandhood, she can transform her home into a paradise by fulfilling the duties assigned to her by God, and she can make her husband and children honorable, worthy, and dynamic individuals, and provide the basis for happiness, peace, and virtue in the home.
Obeying her husband and refraining from disobeying him is one of the most important duties of a woman towards her husband. Of course, obedience to her husband is only in cases that do not contradict divine laws. Marriage is very important in Islam, and in this regard, Imam Ali (AS) says:
"The jihad of a good wife is marriage."
All humans are infatuated with love and are fascinated by psychological attractions and sensual attractions. Therefore, the art of a woman is to respond to her husband by correctly understanding his moral qualities, sensual needs, desires for affection, and affection, using the best methods and protecting him from internal worries and temptations and from external stimuli. A woman with good morals in her life together can never miss an opportunity to express her love for her husband with the beauty of her words. A wise and worthy woman keeps the family warm and happy, and when problems arise, she speaks with kindness and affection, far from anxiety.
Men are thirsty for the love and friendship of their wives. If a man knows that he is not being cared for and loved by his wife, he feels lonely, lonely, anxious and sad. Therefore, a kind wife can express her love to her husband with her affection and show her love in the form of beautiful and meaningful words with the appropriate tone.
One of the beautiful traditions for Muslims when they see each other is to greet each other. Greeting creates love and affection and removes resentment and bitterness. How good it is that whenever the husband enters the house, the wife greets him with openness and greetings.
A wise and understanding woman knows that all humans are evasive of punishment but worthy of respect. Everyone initially loves their own personality and wants others to respect them. In general, if someone respects them, they will love them. One of the duties of a woman is to maintain her values and pay attention to the cognitive and psychological state of her children, and to try to use the most elegant clothes and makeup in front of her husband while respecting their dignity, because a man needs these charms. A woman who is a connoisseur and an artist provides the best and most delicious food to her family members, especially her husband, to the best of her ability. Imam Sadiq (AS) said: "The best of your (Muslim) women is the one who is fragrant and cooks well."
Some psychologists, such as Abraham Maslow and Koenig, consider the need for love and belonging to be basic and psychological needs, and believe that satisfying these needs has a fundamental impact on individuals' mental peace and mental health.
For this reason, a woman should love her husband, not hesitate to express her love for him, and express her interest in various ways, because this expression of interest, in addition to gaining the husband's satisfaction and affection, increases his motivation to work hard and provide for the family's comfort. These actions strengthen relationships and create a warm and loving atmosphere in the family.
translator: fatemeh abbaszadeh
