heartbreak

We humans experience different states in our social interactions with each other. Sometimes, the interactions are constructive and provide a platform for greater joy and vitality. However, at times, our behavior may cause negative emotions for others. In some way, others are offended by our behavior. If we are mentally healthy, we should try to make amends for the harm done to others. However, if we are not difficult to bear the heartbreak of others, we need to become familiar with the penalty of heartbreak from God's perspective.
Many people think that respecting the rights of others is only about material matters such as paying off debts, returning trusts, etc. As a result, they try their best to respect the rights of others in social or economic instances. However, the activities we perform in response to helping others and fulfilling our duties are acceptable as long as we do not create a basis for offending others. You want to be the best wife; but you constantly cause your wife discomfort and annoyance with your behavior and create this rumination for her that why can't I forget her? As a result, you try to prove your success in the role of wife with material actions. In your constant efforts, you realize that you have not been able to fulfill the role of wife, child, parent, ... well. Awareness of the penalty of heartbreak in God's eyes shows us why in some situations we encounter completely unexpected results. In God's eyes, any behavior or speech that hurts others is a sin and should be strictly avoided. This is the case when a person breaks the hearts of others unjustly and for their own personal gain.
The rulings on breaking someone's heart are stated in the Quran and the hadiths of the infallibles, according to which if you break someone's heart, even if you give them the world, your sin will not be reduced.
Breaking someone's heart is a sin that cannot be forgiven by expressing regret, and the broken-hearted person must be satisfied. The prayer of a broken hearted person is answered, the oppressed are next to the broken hearted. The prayers of the oppressed are also answered quickly by God. The first harm that breaking the hearts of others causes to a person is being cursed and being separated from God's mercy. Harassment of a believer is forbidden in Islam, and in general, breaking the heart of a believer, who has been described in narrations as being more respected than the Kaaba, has many effects and aspects. Nothing can remove the sadness and grief that arises in a moment. In general, we must be careful with our language, behavior, and actions so as not to cause a broken heart. If such an incident occurs, after repenting and seeking forgiveness from God Almighty, we must go to the broken-hearted person and resolve the discomfort.

Translator: fatemeh abbaszadeh