self confidence

One of the secrets of success is having a spirit of self-belief and self-confidence. Self-confidence means self-reliance And the opposite point is trusting others. Loss of self-confidence causes paralysis of the human mind and spirit. The starting point of every human being's success is self-knowledge and self-belief, the product of which is self-confidence. People who don't know themselves will fail in family, social and personal matters and in critical and sensitive moments of life. In order to achieve self-confidence, in addition to perseverance and not being lazy, consulting with the knowledgeable and not blindly imitating others, a person must trust God and make a decision. Trusting in God saves a person from all kinds of dependencies that are the source of humiliation and slavery and gives a person freedom and self-confidence. It is in the shade of trust in God that people become self-confident and connect to the source of divine grace, and their perseverance and abilities are unimaginable. One of the factors that weaken self-confidence is negativity in life and education.
All of us, without exception, have been exposed to negative programming in our lifetime. From the time we are young, we are conditioned to be afraid, conditioned to expect the worst, conditioned to downplay our successes and put up a guard against deception. If negative thoughts become a habit, they attract negative reactions, and as a result, the scope of negativity increases. Everything depends on our mind and attitude. If we instill in our minds to be positive, happy and successful, they will obey our command.
Recommendations to strengthen willpower:
. Write down your daily successes - however small and unimportant - and check the reasons for them and look for bigger successes.
. After achieving success, never wait for approval from others.
. Try to have intellectual independence and solve your problems by yourself and get less help from others.
.Dedicate minutes and moments of the day, of course, at a certain time, such as mornings, to exercise and relaxation; Because exercise strengthens the will and achieves self-confidence.
.Adherence to performing Islamic and religious tasks and duties. Always try to pray first.
.Be quick in making decisions and don't do it today or tomorrow; Of course, don't make a decision hastily either (after consulting and examining the aspects of the work).
. Try to say "I don't know" very easily what you don't know.
.Instill in yourself the belief that moral qualities, having talent, are not always inherited and that all of them can be acquired with effort.
As you know, today there are many points of intersection between the discoveries of different sciences and the Quran. In the same way, self-confidence, as one of the basic components in the level of success and satisfaction of a person in life, is not an exception to this rule.

translator: fatemeh abbaszadeh.