People's lives in cyberspace are exposed to everyone in a very attractive way. This causes a lot of jealousy and competition in the family environment, as a result, it will cause spouses to have inappropriate expectations from each other.
According to ISNA, nowadays, the use of virtual space has become an integral part of people's lives. Although this space has benefits and many businesses have flourished in it or people's interactions have expanded through it, nevertheless, its excessive use can be the beginning of big problems for families. In fact, this space is both beneficial and harmful. It depends on us how to use this space to prevent it from harming us and our family. Because many families have broken up or are on the verge of collapse through this space. Excessive use of virtual networks in the family environment can be associated with a sharp decrease in emotional communication between couples, and this defective process significantly reduces the level of dialogue between men and women.Another disadvantage of excessive use of cyber space by couples is unhealthy communication in this empty space. Coma is that the beginning of many relationships of couples has started in this tempting atmosphere. As a result, when interactions in the family fade, emotional dependence is minimized and extramarital relationships are created in an unsafe virtual environment and betrayal is formed. Also, the number of divorces in such families is increasing. If the entertainment of parents in the virtual space exceeds the usual limit, they will no longer be able to monitor their children and the distance between them will gradually increase. On the other hand, because parents are the first role models for their children, children automatically learn this behavior from their parents because they learn what they see.Also, parents who spend a lot of time in virtual spaces instead of talking to their children, can become an obstacle to the natural development of their speech skills. On the other hand, when children and teenagers do not experience real peace in the home environment, they tend to experience this important principle outside the home, and may be caught in the trap of unhealthy people to satisfy their emotional needs and pay a heavy price for filling their loneliness.The representative of the people of Isfahan in the Islamic Council said: The enemy has prioritized the destruction of the family and in this regard is seeking to destroy the sanctity of women.According to Fars news agency from Isfahan, Zahra Sheikhi, the representative of the people of Isfahan in the Islamic Council said: The enemies have decided to design a special and multi-layered operation, and in this regard, they have put priorities such as the family, demoralization, and changing the Iranian Islamic lifestyle on the agenda. In the past, simple living was the main pillar of Iranian families, but now luxury is on the agenda and we have single-digit ratings in the world in cases such as cosmetic surgery, use of cosmetics and other cases. Emphasizing that it is one of the other operational layers of the opposite side of political wars, Sheikhi noted: In this regard, they advance gender and anti-value demands centered on women, and in this regard, the discussion of women and family becomes a major challenge.The next layer of the enemy's operation is the psychological war with media tools, and in this direction, they disturb the society by creating inflammation, and the main soldiers of this field are also women. Saying that we currently need schools and universities that educate multi-dimensional girls so that they can sufficiently benefit from various sciences and use multiple fronts at the same time, Sheikhi said: In Iran, we have a treasure called nature and spirituality, which The West does not benefit from it and it is necessary to carry out future plans according to these cases. The high status of the family cannot be ignored, because the more stable and durable this status is, the more stable and growing the society will be. In other words, the family plays a huge role in preserving or destroying society.
Translator : fatemeh abbaszadeh